About the First Book

Dancing in God's Rhythm

The Dance of Love and Marriage

Does it feel like there's a painful gap between the marriage you're living and the love story you hoped for?
Do you find yourself replaying unmet desires, disappointments, and frustrations over and over in your mind?
Are you tempted to believe that you can't be truly happy, fulfilled, and deeply in love again until your husband changes?
Have you quietly accepted the idea that “feelings fade” and “marriage is hard,” and that this may simply be as good as it gets?
Have you ever heard your heart whisper words you never thought you would think?

“I want out.”

I've been there too.

Whether you are there now, or you want to avoid ever getting there, I want you to know this - There is a way out — not out of your marriage, but out of that darkness.

What if I told you — that a life of disappointment and resentment can be transformed into a life of love and delight through God's Spirit and wisdom?

What if I told you — that your deepest longings can turn into deep satisfaction as you learn to bring them first to God with open hands, before wisely bringing them to your husband?

What if I told you — that God can rewrite the love story of your marriage, and you do not have to wait for your husband to change before transformation begins?

I believe this is possible with all my heart because this is the story God wrote in my own marriage. And I believe He wants to do the same for you.

Want to find out if this book is for you? Read on to learn more.

Is this book for you?

If you want to learn about these topics and more, then this book may be for you:

01How spiritual practices connecting with God can help you become less reactive, anxious, and triggered, and become a more joyful, loving wife.
02How to take control of negative thought patterns and learn the secrets of inner contentment, peace, and joy.
03How to turn complaints into sharing desires in a way that motivates him to do more of what you want.
04How to negotiate desires and debate ideas in a way that is healthy and keeps you emotionally connected.
05How to better understand a woman's sexual responsiveness and enjoyment in marriage.
06How daily and weekly habits are proven to help couples stay more emotionally connected.
07How to call out sin in your husband in a way that is both Biblical and helps him actually want to listen.
08How God's love is not only sacrificial, but also full of affectionate delight,, and longing for oneness - and specific ways we can reflect His love to our husbands.
09How your husband may feel most loved and respected through specific appreciation of his strengths and by serving his priorities.

When this book may NOT for you:

This may not be what you need if you are facing extreme situations such as adultery, substance addiction, serious abuse or trauma. You need specialized counsel and wise people to walk with you through that. These teachings are about what is generally wise, loving, and biblical for most situations. But there are exceptions to every principle. So if you do engage with this material, please use discernment about what advice applies to your specific situation.

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